Tuesday, 28 May 2013

LIES


Lies , everywhere , anytime.
It’s a most common thing people will do to hide their emotions. Be it whether it’s a white lie or anything, a lie is eventually still a lie. It can seriously hurt someone quite badly. Imagine waking up to seeing that people around you are all being fake. Some people lie to cover up mistakes, to make themselves feel better. Lying can make up to a habit as time passes.
Ask yourself, have you ever lied. I bet your answer will be a definite YES. But if you look back into that lie you told, is it a must to do it? Are there any other ways that could work out other than lying? The answer will be YES again. Its human nature to lie, but it’s still an unacceptable action. Craps liar say “I lie to let my close ones not to worry about me.” if they are really your close ones, lying will just hurt them further after they found out.  Why not let them know what’s happening to you? They can be your emotion stability, they can help you, they will care for you, they won’t leave you alone to face the harsh conditions.
White lies ; lies they said to be better for the person not to know. There is a Chinese saying “瞒的了一时,瞒不了一世” which is saying , you can hide for a moment, but not for a life time. Hard to say the truth, I have been through that too, but it will eventually be better.
I personally think that, lying isn’t a big crime. But try not to lie, it will make yourself feel better and great.

 

Sunday, 26 May 2013

dream catchers


I came across these pretty dream catchers, and did some research on them. They are believed to filter away all the bad nightmares and disappear at the daylight. Do you believe?



Saturday, 25 May 2013

friendship


“ Friendships are like a tie, if you tie it correctly, it will look smart and proper. But if you tie it wrongly, it can eventually strangle you.”  -some guy
In an average life, one human can have up to 3000 friends. But you basically only know about 500 of them, and are only close to only less than 30 of them, but you will only truly trust less than 3, and this does not count in your dearest family members.
There are many types of friends. Most that we have known, fake friends, in case you didn’t know what they are ; they are people who actually treats you nice in front of you and shoots an arrow at your back when you’re not looking, in short < back stabbers > . but really sometimes I actually do find it weird why people actually does are they lonely, do they have low self-esteem that they had that, to discriminate someone to find relief for themselves?  Everyone has at least one of these people in their life. I had been through that before, you place all your trust on that one single person, and that person could actually blow it all up in matter of seconds. It hurts, it really does, but its just part of our life that we have to go through.
Lucky enough for some people out there, they had REAL, GOOD and TRUSTABLE friends. Which we will normally list them as < best friends > they are people whom we can share our thoughts, emotion and feelings completely. Best friends lean against each other, playing , fun , laughter will all be shared. But this is where exactly the < back stabbers> came into action. They make you think that you are their best friend, but what are they really thinking? You won’t know. They might be just bitching about you at your back, and when you realise it. Your “best friend” left you, and you will actually know that you’re actually just another “spare tire” towards him/her.
Well, I am just a lucky girl who has made a real best friend, she was really the best, she never left me out in any occasion, she always lend me a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on. She is the best thing on earth I would actually say. I didn’t find her as important in the past, because I had a wide area of friends but soon, I found out that they are all back stabbers and will never every spare a thought for you. They are just purely self-centred people who thinks about nothing but themselves. But she did not. She was all along by my side and we passed these hardships together, and there is where I truly find her. she never left me, never. 


photo credits: tumblr

Many of us are struggling with friendship problems, you’re not alone. But remember, you still have your family, they will love you for what you are. If you don’t have a best friend now, you will find him/her in the near future I believe.  And you will know all the fun and laughter I have been talking about! 
ps: this is me and my best friend. Sherrie <3

Friday, 24 May 2013

Changes


Many things in our life changes as time passes. Some brought us happiness and joy while some left painful and hurtful scars. People comes and goes all the time, I even feel numb towards it. People were always changing in any point in their life, no warning system or anything. It may be because of some hurtful incident, or may be some things that people see that differs their thinking, or may be even things that they did themselves. Of course, it might not be a harsh incident, It may be a good thing that happened that changed their attitude towards something, maybe to the thing they are afraid of.
Don’t be afraid of changes, it really does happen all the time that you have to get use to it real fast. Time doesn’t wait for you, you chase it.
Changes, be it bad or good , it’s how you see them. You may have a very horrible thing going on, but if you try to actually see it in a different light, life will open another door for you to see the world in a different angle. 
learn to love the changes, it brings many surprises to your life.

photo credits@tumblr

LONG TIME NO SEE!

It has been really quite awhile ever since I blogged again. 2years was the last post on my previous blog. So I decided to start blogging again! Remember all the fun and emotional times blogging to you guys. Since I have some time recently, thought I could try to building up a blog again. Expressing my life and feelings to the people who enjoy reading my blog posts.

Let’s start shall we? 
PS; this is me now