Wednesday, 29 January 2014

FRIEND-ZONED

So today, I am going to touch on this topic.

FRIEND-ZONE



I think everyone at least fall to this category at least once in a life time.

I will touch on,

What does it mean if you are Friend-Zoned?

How to know if you are Friend-Zoned?

Why are you Friend-Zoned?

Can you escape the friend-zone?


Just to mention, girls do get friend-zoned too. I got friend-zoned too before so, don't worry guys. I know that feeling.

So lets start!

Friend-Zone basically means that you like this person, but the other party only treats you as a friend.



For example, A likes B, but B doesn't have the feeling towards A. And usually B is unaware of the feelings of A. Sucks to be Friend-Zoned.

So, A is unable to continue to the next stage, which means, A can't go on to the BGR state and is stuck as friends.


SO, how to know if you are friend-zone?

Girls, the guy will tell you about his girl problems, Which girl he wants to get hooked up with.

FRIEND-ZONED

The guy might tell you about girls he meet, or girl advice.
Saying stuffs like " Aww you are like a brother/sister!"

FRIEND-ZONED

Overly comfortable with you, like the girl ( you like ), could just casually say "Oh my, I am on my period, it feels like a monsoon storm." , or she does not really put in any effort when she is going to see you.

FRIEND-ZONED

I realised I went alittle over with the previous. About the monsoon storm. ps

You want to go out with the other party but the other part is always trying to get more friends to go together.

FRIEND-ZONED

This is obvious, when they try to put you together with their friends.

FRIEND-ZONED


There are so many reasons why you are friend zoned. Don't get me wrong, I am not saying you are not good enough, but just the other party didn't realise you are the one.

" Stop and look around the people you are with, because the right person may always just be beside you but you are just too busy looking for the "right" person. "



It may be you let the other part feel too much as a friend and not letting them have a feeling that they can actually visiualize something far and future with you.

It may be the way you act around other people that make the person feel that he/she treats everyone else like this too. So, I should not take him to consideration.

Or just really straight, you are not his/her cup of tea.


SO, everyone has a choice, so you can choose what you want to do.
Stay as friends or attempt to get out of the friend-zone zone.

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WAYS TO JUMP OUT OF FRIEND-ZONE

1. Be confident

I said confident not arrogant. The way you portray yourself , the way you sit, or maybe just by the way you walk. People will have an immediate judgment towards you. Confidence is sexy, for both gender. Because you accept your flaws and enjoy living in your own skin and not being in other's shadow, you will not only attract attention but also feel really great about yourself. Confidence boost your courage as well, so, be on your best so people will have eyes on you. People will start realising a change about you. Although it is not very visible but, the other part will definitely feel a difference in you.

2. Spark a little jealousy

To know if someone likes you or interested in you. Jealousy is a very good sign to prove if someone has that slight interest in you. Do not over do it please, Girls maybe you can hang out with more of your guy friends and guys may can hangout and like take picture with your close girl-friends and show her or something like this. ( NOT ME, I will literally bite the picture and rip it into 1038571923057 pieces. )

3. try a different style

if you are the girly girl, try out something more rocker feel and more dark rather than floral and dresses. Try combat boots and darker lips. It will be a total different feel. Guys can change out from their usual tees and wear shirts instead. IDK issit just me but guys who wear shirt is super handsome and super smart. Try geek specs? I find that cute somehow but of course not everyone suit to do that, just some ideas. You can buy some nice necklace? or just maybe a new hairstyle can change alot of things and impression.

4. skinships

I do not know about this but yeah, not to a crazy extend I think, when other guys tease her and stuffs like this, this is where you step out and say things like " don't like this la" or something like this, but do it in a more joking manner so you dont offend the other party as well. Or you can hold her hands where you can lead her across a road, this is really sweet. I personally think that it is very thoughtful and very sweet for one to do so! It makes the girl feel protected and secure within. Or the guy can put his hand over her shoulders while in a crowd so as to lead her and sort of protect her along the way.

For girls, when the guy is sort of like playing games or doing something, you can lean closer towards him where your arm touches, or put on a nice perfume so he can sort of like smell it... so sick but yes. Coz smelling good is a plus point!

I don't recommend confessing suddenly until you are sure of the opposite party's feelings because you might lose the friendship together too. So hence, take your time and let yourself know him/her know you are actually liking them. They will not be so stupid that they do not know.. it is pretty obvious.

But of course, I hope you all have a nice date on Valentine's! Don't always focus only on the opposite gender because your best friend and maybe sisters or brothers are also always there for you. Shouldn't they deserve the chocolate too? ^^

Hope this actually made some sense....



Good Luck x <3

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Monday, 27 January 2014

❤ DIY bracelet ❤


So, Valentine's Day is coming?

Girls, you want to have more accessories to kind of dress up for the guy you like?

Boys, you want to buy a gift but no budget? Why not make it about yourself? :D

Or, you can just make them for yourself.. you know, Forever Alone day, I know.

This is a DIY bracelet that you can actually make yourself, you can make a hundred of them.

You can make it for your girlfriends for the girls. I would say, this is pretty unisex. Isn't it?


I think guys can pull it off super cutely or super swag.

I JUST REALISED THIS NOT LONG AGO SO I AM SUPER EXCITED TO SHARE WITH YOU GUYS. im late, maybe?

So, here is the DIY!

Materials you need,

1. 20-40 elastic hair ties



2. Charms ( optional )

3. Scissors

So, firstly, you can divide all you hair ties into groups of colours. Or you like a colourful one than its fine. Just play around with the colours, I believe it will still come out as beautiful.




Secondly, you have to take one elastic hair tie, and take another and go over it.








It doesnt make any sense, so you have to look at the picture carefully. I hope you can see the picture properly....

Next, just continue to do the same thing, you can mix the colours. And, you can add the charms when you hook the other elastic band.



Lastly, take the starting, and cut the elastic band into 2 and just tie a crazy knot.


DONE. It is so simple and pretty. I wore it out once and it is pretty awesome.






I will have a Valentine's Day post up soon. Like love, your man? friend-zone?  mmhmmmm.

girls, gotta read that.

This is just a really quick blog. Hope you guys like it!




Show me if you ever made this, I mean like no one will do this. But incase there is someone who will. SHOW ME!! via instagram or twitter!

Good Luck x

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Saturday, 25 January 2014

Mini Scape Haul

HEY guys~ I went to scape today and I got some stuffs and I just thought that I should share with you guys!





My ootd~
<<<< SHERRIE 


Top and bottom : SCAPE

Rings : f21, H&m

Shoes: Converse

The first shop I went, they are just clearing clothes, so I managed to slashed the price and gotten a better price.

For those who do not know, its some what like thrifting and there are second hand stuffs over there too.





I got this blue basic cropped top, okay, I did say I needed to stop buying crop tops, but I cant say no to this because it was 3 for $10, 2 of my other friends bought too so its basically 3 bucks only.

The material is so so so so freaking soft, I cannot believe it.
I can see myself wearing it with a statement pants and some JC heels!!!!!






Next I got a heart crop top, 2nd piece of crop top, I got this I think for $10, the material is similar to the first one I bought but this has a really cute pastel coloured heart on it. Which made it extra cute!

I like the fact that it is actually tight fitting because, I cannot get enough of this soft yet cropped yet cute yet cheap yet tight fitting clothing.
I can see myself wearing this with a cute skater skirt with my Gradient heels yay~





3rdly, its this amazing weird coloured shirt. It is kind of like poop at first sight but it is okay after that. Maybe it was because of that. I do not know, because I am drawn to really weird things.

I think I got this for 8 bucks.

It just cropped and nice and.... you guys know it.

I can see myself wearing this with like high-waist shorts with my flip flops heh~






This white top, its the best quality of all the 3, it is super good quality and it is brand new. I got this for 15 bucks.






This floral skirt, I got this from 15 bucks to 10 bucks. The lady is nice enough to give me such a nice discount, the blogshop they have is @shopenvymyfetish! do go check them out because they sell really in reasonable price.

It is so comfy to wear that I think I might want to even wear it as PJs..........and just any shoe I think it will look super cute.






Lastly, ( finally ), I have this denim jacket from F21, I got it second hand in scape for only... 8 FREAKING BUCKS. I MEAN LIKE GIRL, YOU CAN NEVER BUY A 8 BUCK DENIM JACKET FROM FOREVER 21. I was like, I had to get it.

I do not need to tell you guys about the shirt quality because, It is from f21, it wont be that bad at all.

I can see myself wearing it as a vest with like.. everything.. so yeaps, I think it will look cute if I wore a ribbon head band.

This the end of the short haul.



Good Luck x
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